it Really Possible for a Man With LOW or NO Confidence With Women and
Dating To Build His Confident, Powerful,
and Masculine Sexual Identity
- AND Get a HIGH-QUALITY Woman?
Men Everywhere Are Tired of Being Fake With Women - No More Fake Lines, No More Fake Attitudes, and No More Lame Results...
FROM CARLOS XUMA: Monday, 12:24 AM.
If there's one thing I know, Men NEED
to feel sexually confident and capable of attracting
Not "want" to feel - they NEED to feel this kind of ability. That's what drives us as men.
And I'm not just talking about the average woman or the one you'll be bored of dating in a few weeks. You want a HIGH QUALITY woman that will add value to your life for months and years to come.
You don't ever want to settle.
I'm about to take you inside the
somewhat demented world of the "pickup
artist," and see what most guys will never see... How REAL
attraction and confidence works for
women from the inside out.
When it comes to dating women, sometimes a man will do anything to attract women...
And sometimes there are things that NO man should do.
Before we go any further, I need you to ask yourself something...
- Have you ever read an opening 'line'
you learned from some book or message board that sounded
so cool when you read it, but
you tried it and fell flat on your face? Something like: "Hey, who lies
more, men or women?"
- Have you ever wondered how you can get a truly
woman into your life, instead of dating women that aren't
up to your standards?
- Have you ever tried to talk to a woman in a bar or a
club, and the conversation ran out in just a
couple of minutes? One minute you're talking
about something with her, and she's laughing and flipping her hair, the
next minute you're sitting in the middle of one of those uncomfortable
- Maybe you've tried some of the "pickup" routines
that you heard or read about, but you wound up feeling like you were
impersonating a rock star, or pretending to be a person you weren't...
- Have you ever been out on a date with a woman you
don't want to mess it up with, and you found yourself wondering just HOW MUCH to reveal
about yourself...? After all, you don't want to scare her off by
telling her the wrong things, but what's good to tell her - and what's
- Maybe you're out talking
to women and approaching women, and now you're wondering
how to not only overcome your own fears and doubts, but you want to
know what the Big Picture
is - How to go from A to Z with a woman and escalate naturally and confidently
from meeting her to taking things to a more sexual level...
"Men Will Sacrifice Anything - Including Their Identity - To Attract Women..."
When I was out meeting women, and I got into a one-on-one conversation with a woman that thought was attractive, I would throw away almost everything that made me unique just to meet a woman's expectations and attract her to me.
But here I was, trying to give her exactly what she SHOULD want - and what every woman seemed to say she wanted...
But I never felt like it was enough.
It got to the point where I almost gave up.
The more I went out and met women, the more I found out that "me" didn't seem to be enough to attract her. I'd talk to women about my hobbies and what I thought was interesting, but I never seemed to get anywhere.
When I was on a date, I'd ask a bunch of questions - because I'm supposed to show interest in HER. Then I'd end up telling her about my family and my job.
But by the end of the date, it never felt like any spark had been made...
It seemed like telling her about
me bored her in some way.
After a while I started being a little "flexible" with the truth. I found myself purposefully hiding certain facts and even exaggerating things about me to impress her, because I figured she would find me more attractive up front.
And then later on down the road I
could be more "real" with her. I even tried being more like a "player"
to jack up women's attraction for me.
Well, that actually backfired on me, too, because even though I got them more interested in me at the start, I started having less success getting another date with them. I lost her trust by being too intense with the player vibe.
My game was actually WORSE when I
was using pickup techniques than when I was just being "myself."
- Do you ever feel like a woman can see right through
you and the methods you use to try to get her interested?
- Have you ever been afraid of being "caught" using
an opener or a line when you're trying to approach a woman? Or that
she's got her "player" radar on and she's already on high alert for
'your kind' of guy?
- Do you ever feel like dating starts out with some interest, but most of the time you never seem to get off the ground with a woman? You feel like it's an uphill battle to generate interest from her, and the more you try, the less she seems to respond?
You're not alone.
I felt like this for years.
The funny thing is, most of the guys out there that I work with will try anything to improve their ability with women. They try all the pheromone colognes, witty openers, and hypnotic patterns. In the end, they just feel like they can't do it because - they say - "it's not me."
Here's The Dirty Truth You Didn't Know About Being A "Pickup Artist..."
I've heard from a lot of guys that picked up a copy of the book "The Game" telling me that none of the lines and openers they got from it work anymore because ALL the guys are using these techniques.
You know what? This is always going to be true. You can find a thousand techniques out there, and only a handful that actually work for you.
These routines and techniques that guys teach on TV reality shows are just to give you an idea of the type of things that women find interesting, and the word-for-word routines are not meant to be parroted to every woman you see.
It's like learning how to play
guitar. You can learn to play a Led Zeppelin tune or two if you want,
and you'll sound like Jimmy Page. But that's all you'll ever sound like,
until you learn how to play like YOU.
I actually did this for years playing guitar before I figured out that I was great at sounding like other people... but I just couldn't sound like ME.
I wasn't very original, and I started feeling and acting like a clone instead of being unique.
And that's how using routines and
lines can actually cripple your success with women,
because you are undermining your belief and confidence in yourself
by using borrowed words.
"Stop Telling Yourself That You're Not What She Wants..."
Again, the biggest mistake we make as men is assuming that because what you're doing isn't working, that means that it's YOU that's at fault. As if you're entire value as a man is based on a skill you've never been taught.
Just like the example I just gave
you of the guitar style I was trying to find, there are TONS of
"systems" and outer game techniques out there that work the same way.
You learn how they work, and then you get rid of them because they are
just training wheels to get you riding the bike yourself.
Long after all the clever pickup lines and approaches have been exposed, your authenticity and REAL character will NEVER be out of style or a liability. You can't get caught using one of these "techniques" if you're always being YOU.
Pretty cool, huh?
This is what I want to teach you. How to get women interested in you and build deep rapport with them by just being YOURSELF, instead of trying to be someone you're not, or use other people's words.
No matter how many techniques you learn, you will always end up back here with me working on your inner game. No technique in the world create this strength of foundation you'll get from complete self-confidence.
And The Secret To Getting Women That No One Ever Told You About...
For the longest time, I've wondered "What is it that makes certain guys REALLY successful with women? But what I noticed was that whenever another guy tried to imitate that same success - using the exact same techniques that the other guy was using and had success with - the guy imitating him had a tough time.
(In fact, the guy who was trying to model the successful guy often had a much tougher time in the long run. I'll come back to this in a second...)
Even I had the same problems. I'd use an opener I learned from someone, and when I walked over and used it to start a conversation, I would sound like some phony B-movie actor delivering a bad line. It sounded corny and stupid.
One girl even stopped in the middle of taking a sip from her drink, squinted at me, and said, "Did you just try that with all the other girls in here?" Then she rolled her eyes and shook her head, and I felt that sinking sensation in the pit of my stomach as my confidence crashed and burned.
I think you know what that feels like, don't you?
The one thing that women need to
trust you and
give themselves to you is something that most guys completely miss.
It's a little word that starts with an "A" and ends in "C." I'll
explain this word to you right now...
Wouldn't it be nice to have a system that you could use that you would never feel "caught" with?
Something that comes from your own
unique identity? That doesn't feel fake?
Women Can See Who You Really Are - No Matter What You Do or Say.
Human beings are amazing creatures, and women are even more amazing in their ability to pick up on you - your vibe!
Here's something I discovered
along the way that finally gave me the "A-Ha!" moment I needed, and I
want to share it with you. It took me years to finally "get" this into
my thick skull.
This is what I figured out:
Women have a highly specialized social radar. It's a highly sensitive instinct that almost seems like Telepathy... It's her social radar - and it can detect B.S. from a mile away. It's just like Spidey-sense, complete with the tingling.
Women can tell if you're being YOU or trying to be someone you're not. And she can do this in the first 2 or 3 minutes of a conversation, almost without fail.
And here's something else:
The one thing a woman is attracted to first - the one thing she must test you for before she will trust you and go further - is if you're AUTHENTIC.
She has to know you're SINCERE.
Most of our brain matter, in fact,
evolve so you could solve tricky Algebra problems, or memorize plays
Most of your mind evolved so that you could tell when someone was being sincere with you, so that you could make a decision about who to trust - or not.
This isn't a life-or-death
decision today, but it used to be, back when you had to know that your
friend Grok wouldn't abandon you in the middle of a mammoth hunt.
Women have this exact same specialized brain wiring, but it's even more effective at figuring out men. She needs to know very quickly if the guy she's interested in is an asset - or a potentially life-threatening risk.
So you see, the secret is not trying to camouflage your attempts to get a woman interested in you, or try to sneak in with some hypnotic technique, or hide behind a "pickup" routine. Quite simply because YOU CAN'T HIDE YOURSELF from a woman.
The REAL "trick" to getting women is in learning how to be attractive to a woman from your own unique personality.
Because that's all she's ever going to believe about you anyway.
But I'll bet you've figured this
out on your own, haven't you?
I used to play a lot of "pickup games" with women, but then I finally realized that the only women that are interested in all these fake routines and games are the 22-year-old drunk party girls. These girls are only there to have fun and maybe hookup. You really don't need a lot of skill to pickup on them.
The kind of high-quality woman
that I wanted to find - the woman that was interesting to talk to - as
well as get physical
going to be spending her time at the clubs every night.
So rather than using a shotgun to catch them - blast buckshot everywhere and hope to hit someone that might be interesting - I found a way to turn my game into a SNIPER RIFLE and catch my target every time.
Deadly aim, precise accuracy.
And then I could target the kind of woman I wanted to have in my life.
The best thing about choices is
being able to choose what you want, not what you have to settle
The Secret Reason Women Can Smell
Your Real Confidence and Personality...
Have you ever had a woman tell you that you should "just be yourself."
Well, let me ask you something: When are you ever not being "yourself?"
The only time is when you try to pretend that you have qualities that you don't really believe you do.
That one bit of female advice is completely true, but also completely damaging to a guy who doesn't understand what women are really saying when they say "Just be yourself." You have to be "you," but you also have to be the best version of you that you can show.
Here's something you might not know: If you try to be someone you're not by borrowing someone else's stories or showing off a lifestyle you haven't experienced, you give off a very weird 'vibe' to every person you meet. ESPECIALLY women, who have psychic tentacles that can feel out any part of your personality that doesn't seem to match your behavior.
Look, I don't want to get too philosophical here, but the truth is, You are who you THINK you are.
Your identity is the CORE of who you are - your true PERSONALITY.
Your personality isn't likely to change without a lot of painful, unnecessary work - and you should never have to change it.
A lot of guys think that since they haven't experienced the kind of massive success they want with women, and their self-esteem is sending them all kinds of conflicting information, they believe that they cannot turn their game around with women.
This is NOT true, and I'm going to tell you how ANY guy can turn his game around.
On one side you have your "Personality," and on the other hand you have your "Personas."
Your "Persona" is who you are when you let other people influence how you act. Personas are FLUID and FLEXIBLE. You can create personas and still be true to YOU. You have a persona for going to church, or talking to a group of people, or going out in a bar.
Your persona is just the parts of you that you choose to bring out in certain social situations.
So the best way to attract women is to be the best YOU you can be.
And that is what I show men how to do. Not be somebody else that feels fake or weird. Just be the best YOU.
To do this, I came up with a model of the ideal man that most guys want to be. I call him the Alpha Man.
What Is the "Alpha Man?"
|He's REAL - He knows how to show his genuine personality in a way that is massively attractive to women...|
|He's Passionate - He taps into his masculine energy and power - driven by the things in life HE wants to do...|
|He's Ambitious - He goes after what he wants with assertive force - and he usually gets it...|
|He tells himself the Truth - He doesn't delude himself, no matter how attractive the illusions are. No denial and no self-deception...|
|He's Emotionally intelligent - He knows how to keep his emotions from running- and ruining - his life...|
|He's Socially adept - He knows how to handle any social situation and read other people - avoiding the games and leading to his desired result...|
|He's Cunning - He's a smart survivor with the ability to adapt and bend his circumstances to his will...|
|He Has Power Social Skills- He knows that women now choose men who are more socially skilled and aware...|
|...And He Has No apologies - He projects his personality outward instead of coming across as if he's apologizing for himself and his actions...|
The Alpha Man does not pee on trees, take steroids, or push people around. He's not the aggro guy.
Today's Alpha Man understands a woman better than she understands herself.
And, believe it or not, YOU can be this Alpha Man.
If you 've been playing "games" to
get women to be interested in you, then I've created something that you
can use to cut through the games and B.S. and finally start to use
your real personality to attract women's interest.
You don't need worn-out pickup lines or awkward techniques.
You don't need to be a "pickup artist..."
Game is what you need to succeed.
REAL stands for:
= Relaxed & Resourceful - when you're cool and
calm, you'll be able to remember the techniques that work...
= Effective & Energized - you have to find your
power and the strategies that work for you...
= Authentic & Alpha - it has to come from YOU,
your authentic confident and masculine character...
- L = Lifestyle & Lasting - this is a way of life for you - success in every area, not just women...
When you have REAL Game, you're not just another 'player' out there spouting lines about "Who lies more, men or women?" or asking her what her astrological sign is. You will be a man who understands how women communicate AND how women want a man to talk and behave around them.
When you stay REAL with a woman, she will be attracted to you faster and stay with you longer.
I discovered that I didn't want to be fake just to get a girlfriend. I knew I just had to be ME.
But that's more than enough - and it will actually make you better than 99% of the guys out there!
And it doesn't mean you can't attract women with your true personality.
Remember: There's ALWAYS one more pickup technique or clever line to be found out there, but it still won't work for you without the right attitude.
But if you find the right attitude, you'll ALWAYS have a technique.
So here is what I found to be the "3 Essential Needs" so that you can "be yourself" AND get the high-quality women you want.
Here Are Your 3 Essential Needs
REAL Success With Women and Attraction...
You don't need any more complex theories and diagrams to make changes and become the man you want to be. What you need is CLARITY.
Clarity comes when you have a simple path that allows you to go from where you are and make your life into what YOU want it to be.
You see a wide open path to go from where you are right now all the way to that goal. Not just a distant mountain peak on the horizon and not knowing how to get there - much less how to climb it.
The first steps on that path that
every guy needs is getting his confidence built up. This is called
Now let's look at the problem - and your solution...
Face it, we all want to be motivated and inspired by someone. It's hard to stay motivated every day and all the time. Humans are lazy by nature.
The funny thing about laziness is
this: We go through all kinds of EFFORT and WORK
just to be lazy!
How do you think such things as the remote control and recliners with cup holders were invented?
The truth is this: Human beings put out unbelievable effort in the
NOW to avoid work LATER.
Each of the people that invented a time-saving, effort-saving gadget - like the remote control - thought it was a wonderful idea when they created it. They also knew that they could sell that invention and make big-time money on it.
They motivated themselves with
the promise of a better future if they would just invest
time in something right now.
Think about that for a minute, because that's really important.
If you can create the reason why
- you can do almost any what
- and find any HOW
to accomplish something. That's called motivation.
Motivation is like taking a shower. When you shower you get clean and you feel GREAT. But it wears off. Tomorrow, you'll need more another shower all over again.
No matter how motivated you get to
change your life or learn new skills, you'll need more later on, when
times are tough.
- NOBODY is motivated 100% of the time, no matter what you may think...
- NOBODY is happy 100% of the time...
- NOBODY is good with women 100% of the time...
can DOUBLE your motivation, happiness, and attraction skills
with a few proven strategies.
Yes, you can learn how to be the man you want to be. It all comes down to your own fire and drive. Moods come and go, but action speaks volumes.
In a moment, I'm going to reveal to you how you can use the Secret Strategies of Motivation and getting yourself to finally DO the things you know you have to do to succeed. This is the missing link that will finally complete your game with women.
Don't think that reading an e-book once or listening to a CD program once will get you that motivation. In fact, if you think this, you probably should stop reading right now. I can't help people who are looking for the "get-rich-quick" scheme.
There are some guys out there that are so hung up on the analytical side of this stuff that they get into REAL trouble when it comes time to interact in the real world with real women...
I've seen graphs and
charts and descriptions of this "micro-hoop" theories that take all the
fun out of meeting and talking with beautiful women.
Does it really have to be this complicated?
NO, it doesn't.
You don't need another
graph/chart/picture/clever analytical method.
It's time to put your scientific calculators away and own up to the ACTION you must take.
You need a clear answer to a very clear and simple question: "How do you approach women confidently and get them interested and attracted to you?"
In the end, every
man that achieves true success with women will end up with his own
UNIQUE style of seduction. You learn it not
by learning a complicated model, but by taking what you already have
and making that work for you.
And the side-benefit is that when you learn how to be R.E.A.L. with a woman, you'll be able to use ANY system you want and make it work for you. And it won't feel fake or weird doing it.
This is going to sound a little off the topic, but have you ever used an equalizer?
You know, an equalizer is that funky thing that lets you change the way your music sounds by cutting or boosting certain frequencies? In your car, you have a really simple version of this: bass and treble controls. At home you may have seen one with a bunch of sliders that helps you "shape" the sound.
Without equalization, your music feels flat and dull. When you use it, the sound comes alive.
principles of REAL Game is the equalizer - and booster - for your "VIBE"
- your personality.
When you've learned how to authentically approach women, you'll learn how to boost the right parts of your personality - and also cut out the parts that are too loud or hurt her ears. You'll have a silky smooth sound that turns you into a charismatic force of attraction with women.
Who I Am... And How I Can Help You...
I started out learning about the principles of Alpha Man behavior from my dad when I was just a kid. He showed me what it was like to be genuinely and unapologetically MASCULINE.
When I was in my early twenties, I lost all my confidence with women when I started reading all the relationship "self-help" books out there. I had to re-learn how to really attract women all over again. I had to re-learn what it meant to be a man and get quality women the right way.
What I did was create a roadmap of
my journey that you're probably familiar with in my Secrets
of the Alpha Man program.
What I decided to do next was take this new approach to my own sexuality and masculinity, and make a program that ANY guy can use to go from wherever you are right now and take it to the next level with the Alpha Immersion Program. This is really my advanced Secrets of the Alpha Man.
And now you can do this on your own - with no need for an expensive "bootcamp" to get you there. (I've seen these "in the field" training classes that cost over $2000. Amazing...) You can improve your inner and outer game all on your own, and from the privacy of your own home.
It's my goal to make you - the real YOU - attractive to women, without borrowing someone else's personality or having to become another person to do it.
You're Going To Learn Some REAL
and Strategies for Attraction...
Now, after all this talk about being "natural" and REAL, you might wonder why the heck I want to show you all my techniques and tactics that I use to attract women. After all, isn't this just going against what I said about being genuine and authentic and NOT using techniques?
Well, the funny thing was that I
finally figured out after years of using a bunch of rehearsed lines and
routines was that I actually needed
them to start out and get better. What these
"techniques" did for me was give me borrowed confidence
for attracting women.
So what I did was pull all my best strategies together - taking all the best pieces and the ones YOU could adapt to your personality - and I created a new roadmap for the next part of the journey towards being the Alpha Man that women desire.
What I will do for you in this program is to connect the dots - from understanding the inner confidence that a man needs to feel, to the way you use your own attraction skills to pull women directly into your life. And I'm doing it with a method that you can easily modify and change to match your own personality and style.
I don't believe in giving a man a
fish... I teach him how to fish - and
then give him the fish he needs to get started and not starve in the
You've seen and heard Carlos Xuma on:
is getting phone numbers all the time...
"You guys have NO idea what a treat you're in for. I was at the seminar in-person and there was so much information packed into it that I had no more questions for Carlos afterwards, and now there is even MORE packed into these DVDs! Things like body language, proxemics, fashion tips, approaching, you name it... it's there. This is your chance to get a visual learning experience of what it takes to be an Alpha Man.
No weird patterns or hypnotic trance stuff, just R.E.A.L. game which you will learn if you get these DVDs. What are you waiting for?"
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"I have been on numerous personal development programs over the years from Sales training, Voice coaching and UPW with Anthony Robbins (the Fire walk as well). Your Alpha Immersion program ranks right up there with the best of them...
...I can say with absolute belief and certainty that I have received my money's worth just from the epiphany of your statement.
This DVD series along with your Secrets of The Alpha man is an invaluable tool for any guy out there who is 'pissed off', 'frustrated and ambitious' enough to take control of this latent power sleeping within...
This material is mind expanding, challenging, provocative but ultimately rewarding. Any guy out there who is feeling restless with the quality of his life will find the missing links right here. Thanks again!"
- Mike V, UK
finds the Alpha Immersion DVDs easy to
"I bought Carlos's [Secrets of the Alpha Man program] late last year and couldn't put it down. His exercises, (Absolute Power Now), etc... actually work! A lot of people have products out there about inner game, but they're so scientific that its hard to apply it to your own life. Not the case here...
When I got the email announcing Carlos' seminar, I immediately signed up. I wanted the opportunity to learn from the man himself. The class was made up of about 20 guys. Not the hundred's that you'd normally expect. It was set up in more of a workshop style. There was a lot of time for questions and answer sessions.
Carlos specializes in teaching you the REAL aspect of game based on building upon who you are as a person. Not some FAKE canned, 'Hey Girls!!! pick-up lines'. I didn't come to his seminar for that and I didn't find it. One of the great things about this system is that the improvement in your game kinda sneaks up on you. You see a woman that catches your attention and BAM it's on! At least that's been my experience anyway. Thanks a Million Carlos!"
Immersion DVDs helped Ronnie in more ways
"This program is amazing. Its helped my life in more ways than one. First, its helped shape my perceptions about myself and life in general. I now see things differently. Because of this, I feel that its much easier to take on the behaviors of a Alpha Man. Also, I've really used alot of the scientific principles Carlos talks about to improve my self-confidence.
As a result, I feel that I don't have to try as hard to attract women because it kinda comes by itself. Many guys out there go into too much detail, Carlos goes into just the right amount of detail so he doesn't overwhelm you and he gives you the bigger picture. I love this program, its been the cornerstone for my self-improvement. Thanks Carlos, love ya bro :)"
has really upped his game...
"What works so well about this approach is that it allows men of all different skill levels to come in wherever they are in their game and pick up what they need. I could really come in where I was and add just the skills that I needed. I picked up so much data from this workshop that it took weeks to let it settle in, but now I'm suddenly juggling 3 women in my life that were not there prior to taking the course. When it rains it pours!" - Kirin, San Francisco, CA
L. already sees tremendous improvement in his dating life...
"The Alpha Man Immersion program is definitely the new pair of 3D goggles I needed to really open my mind to see what I can accomplish not just in the dating world, but also in the overall set of skills as an alpha man and being able to take controls and steer the quality of my life to the next level.
... I'm already seeing tremendous improvement in my dating life, both in the inner and outer game.
Since I cracked open the case roughly a week ago and absorbed and applied the information, I've managed to naturally attract and date several outstanding girls in that time which previously would have taken me a year to accomplish (no joke!).
This is the real deal guys, and you seriously have no idea just how much sheer volume of useful info is jam-packed into this set of 4 dvds! Carlos really knows his stuff from experience, and it's very clear that his passion for helping other men out in this vital area further affirms the fact that he comes from a very real, credible, sincere, and intelligent place."
- Matt L.
Listen To These Everyday Guys Who
Became Exceptional With Women Using The Alpha Immersion Program...
Here's What You'll Get In the Alpha Immersion Program...
So what I've created is this: a video program that helps you make the transition from being the "average frustrated" guy to the level of confidence and skill with women you want.
The first disc starts right in by explaining the Inner Game of the Alpha Man - where your confidence and attitude comes from, and the beliefs and structures that enable him to attract women. I explain my "REAL Game" methodology, and how this simple process takes ANY method you may have learned in the past and gives you the ability to use the best - and lose the rest.
Then we will connect your REAL Game to your ability to approach women, talk to them, and attract them with real-life methods that any man can use (you won't ever find yourself saying "Man, I can't do that" during this program.)
I'll give you my complete philosophy, with examples and real-life methods of opening and talking to women without feeling fake or creepy.
I'll explain everything that's going on in my head when I go out to approach and get women's attraction started. I'll tell you how to understand men, women, and the whole game of attraction from A to Z.
I'll even pull in one of my trainers, CJ Chandler, to show you exactly what women are looking for in a sexually charged man's body language, words, and attitude.
This program is my actual 3-day Alpha Immersion bootcamp program I filmed live in front of an exclusive group of guys that I took out in the field to give them the real tools to get past their approach anxiety and go after the women they want.
The Alpha Immersion DVD Contents
I've put an incredible amount of effort to make the "Alpha Immersion" DVDs really outstanding. This truly is the Advanced Secrets of the Alpha Man.
On these 4 DVDs you will find all the advice, tips and strategies to improve your life.
But, enough talking, check out for yourself what comes with these 4 DVDs. It's EVERYTHING you'll ever need to succeed with women.
This is a REALLY
long list, but it's going to impress you as to how much detail the
program will cover and how much you're going to learn...
DVD Contents - DISC #1
- The "Unknown Difference" - How you can raise yourself
to the next level of achievement in your own life...
- How you're sabotaging your results with
women when you use 'canned' lines, routines, openers, or
any other artificial techniques - and how to make them work for you the right way...
- How to "project your personality" so that you can
like a 3-dimensional Alpha
Man instead of just another "pickup artist"
or "player" - and attract a woman on a level that tells her you are
- The Power of Specifics
your mind for success - and realizing when you're off course - to save
yourself years of fruitless searching...
- The Secret Reason that
your appearance is NOT a factor in
attracting the women that you desire, and why you are better off than
you think you are...
- The "Rules Exercise" to
clarify your belief systems - and get past the limiting beliefs that
hold you back from having a hot girlfriend...
- The Primary Challenge
you will face in
performance and attitude that can either give you unstoppable
confidence in your life, or push you into a meek personality that you
may never be able to shake off...
- The Big
Mistake most men make when they learn the Art of
Attraction - and how you can avoid this costly mistake in your own
- The 4 Critical Components
of High Social Value - and how they work to "sub-communicate" to a
woman that you are not only worth her time and energy - you
are a force to be reckoned with...
- Learn how to "Diamond Mine"
in your life to increase your perseverance and destroy your "quitter"
- How to shake off your subconscious feeling of guilt
embarrassment so that you don't compromise your identity and
self-confidence to anyone...
- The Rules of the Game
that clear your head of all the confusion you get from listening to
- The Communication Rule
for your value that
you must never break - or the woman will not respect you or seek your
presence - but if you use it, she will want you...
- How to use the "Jeet Kune Do" of dating
- applying martial arts philosophy to dating skills so that women
perceive depth and calmness in your world...
- How to use Attraction AND Rapport
together for maximum effect - instead of
fragmenting your game into isolated zones, now you'll know how to
integrate the essential elements of sexual attraction
to think less like an engineer and more like an Alpha Man...
- The One Secret Ingredient
all men and women seek in social interactions and how to use it to your
advantage so that you project a powerful energy...
- The 4 Essential Progressive Skills
developing a relationship with a woman and getting her emotionally and
physically involved in you, and how they work together to create a
complete strategy for attraction...
- How men
destroy most attraction with women - and the way you
develop the "antibiotic" for this virus...
- Why a woman will hold herself back from
demonstrating attraction to you - and why you must be able to see past
this to know what she really wants...
- How to manage and handle your techniques and routines
make sure you are unique and stand apart - and how to choose what suits
- The 3 Types of Value Determination
- how you project your value and worth to others...
- The Secret Strategy for
you and your wingman work together to boost your value to women when
you're out and approaching...
- The 5 step progressive plan
to get you out and meeting women now and not procrastinate any
- The Power Belief - if
you adopt this it will allow you to approach ANYONE...
- The 3 Calibration Factors
you must make to adjust to women and handle their individual traits and
- How most men condition themselves against
meeting women - and how you can use this to your advantage to meet more
women than you imagined possible...
- Inner game techniques to
thinking and self-confidence and develop your inner compass of strength
and security with social situations and dating...
- The Authority Experiment
to develop and experience your natural Alpha Power...
- How to test a woman's interest with
conversation so that you know whether or not to spend more time with
her or another more promising prospect...
- Learn the primary differences between men and women
in basic attitudes as well as how they interact and how they conflict...
- Dozens of Topic shortcuts you
can use at ANY time and in any conversation to keep the talk flowing
and avoid any uncomfortable silences...
- What you MUST do with cold or aloof women right away
want to break past their "ice" shields and get to the warm woman
- The 2 Steps to balancing
rapport in your approach strategy with women so that you don't mess it
up because you didn't know how to calibrate...
- How to handle different environments and recognize
change your approach to a woman's social focus so that you can get
attraction and rapport every time...
- The 2 rules of sexual initiation
with women, and why you must obey them to get to a "physical" level...
- The 4 Steps to Approach Anxiety
and how to get defuse the time-bomb so that you can approach any woman
without fear of rejection...
- The 6 Rapport and Comfort tools
and how they're used to create a powerful bond of trust between you and
a woman so that she will open up to you...
- 5 Power Questions and Quiz Questions
that put you in the driver seat of any conversation with a woman...
- How to reveal personal information and
history to a woman so that you don't freak her out or
scare her off...
- What to do when you're NOT seeing indications of a
interest - and how to handle it so that you don't chase your own tail...
- 6 Surefire Topics to
talk about with a woman that she will always enjoy - and you can build
into more powerful connections...
- Pendulum Theory - learn
how your behavior is controlled and limited, and how to find balance
- The One Fear you possess
that makes you submissive and anxious - and how to isolate it and
Proven Methods for driving up a woman's investment in you
so that she sticks around long enough to discover the "REAL" you...
- Your Field Work Plan -
5 weeks to get yourself approaching and out in the field and effective
in social environments...
- AND MORE...
DVD Contents - DISC #2
- The Questions that kill
attraction and connection, and you should never ask a woman - and why...
- The essential steps to create deep rapport, and
communicate to a woman on an instinctual level that she is interested
in you romantically...
- Why you cannot ignore or shortcut the small talk -
to make it crackle with
power so that conversations move from friendly
to supercharged in minutes instead of hours...
Secret Method to express interest in a woman that she
will interpret and understand as confident
sexual interest, without
having to embarrass yourself or feel weird or creepy...
- The Shy
100 exercise to overcome
your fear of approaching -
meet more women, and cure yourself of social phobias and awkwardness...
- The 4 closing techniques
to escalate your introduction to a woman to a more lasting opportunity
- How to isolate a woman from a group so that you can
establish rapport and avoid other women - and men - from blocking your
- The Hidden & Powerful Method
to create the feeling
for a woman that you have known her longer, and create more potent and
lasting rapport - so that when you're done talking with her she will
feel that you and her are totally
- Cold Approaches - what they are, how to handle them,
and why they are easier than the women in your "warm" circle...
- Direct vs. Indirect approaches
- what they
are and how you use each type of approach in the right situation... and
know which one is the most powerful and successful with the situation
you are in...
- The Permission Factor
and how it affects your choices in women, as well as relationships and
- The Rules of Female Resistance
- why women
put up resistance to your romantic advances - from getting her number
to the kiss to the bedroom... and how you reframe it to get to
- The 5 rules of using teasing and
creating playful conversation...
- Carlos' inner state explained - his 3
core beliefs and how he uses these to maintain iron-clad
confidence in all social situations...
- The 11 Initial Strategies of Approach
- the complete architecture and psychology of approaching women -
broken down and explained...
- Male Panic Syndrome
explained - how this ticking time bomb completely destroys a woman's
interest in you...
- How to use bar & club approaches to improve
your game - even if you hate going to them...
- Examples of Indirect/Direct (REAL)
openers - how to combine your approach techniques and
leverage the best of all worlds...
- How to use another guy's failure to help you approach
and interest a woman with success...
- How to use the power of "Loaded
Questions" to help you steer conversation and influence
the flow of energy...
- Carlos' REAL Game openers and how they
and how you can create your own anytime from almost any location so
that you never hear a woman say "Is
that some kind of line...?"
- The Power of Cold Reading and
incorporate the principles in your own conversations to establish
immediate rapport with anyone, and read their personalities...
- Kino and Kinesthetic Strategies for touching that
will light up a woman's desire and sexual attraction...
- The 4 rules of Proxemics
and using distance to dial-up the physical intensity in a
- How to approach and close distance with a woman
without raising her trust and safety alarms...
- 3 forms of powerful eye contact
that will immediately communicate sexual confidence and
- How to bridge distance and touch a woman without her
feeling you are "gropey"...
- How to know which eye contact is creepy and which is
- 4 Secret Rules of Initial Eye Contact
that will either create an irresistible connection with a woman - or if
you fail will ensure she ignores you...
- How a man must break eye contact confidently to
maintain a woman's respect...
- 3 Indications of Interest
you must watch out for when a woman gives you the signals to approach
- The 3 kinds of kino and touching, when they are used,
and which you must use earlier rather than later...
- The 4 Types of touching escalations
you must learn and apply to increase a woman's comfort and interest...
- How to use Hot-Spots,
and why you better not miss them when they happen...
- The 3 Critical Concepts of Body Language
that you must know and use to carry yourself with confidence...
- The ONE secret
indicator you must watch for in body language to read a woman's
- 5 Standing body language secrets
and 5 Walking body language secrets to
improve your posture and stature - with visual examples...
- How to hug a woman with confidence so that you don't
send off a "friends-only" vibe...
- The Progression of Kino
- where and when to touch - as well as the dynamics of interpersonal
touch and space...
- The places to touch women to turn her on - the zones
of good and bad kino...
- How to handle it when a woman pulls away from you so
that you don't lose your cool, panic, or ruin the situation...
- How to use the "Cold Hands" routine,
Palm Reading, and "The Cube" as games to imitate
- How to demonstrate chivalry and
protection to a woman so that she feels an instant bond
of attraction - including 5 examples of chivalrous behavior that women
- The 10 facial expression indicators
that women use to demonstrate emotional engagement...
- The 2 kinds of preening
and fidgeting and how to tell them apart...
- The 10 Body Language Indicators
to watch for from a woman when she's sitting...
- 3 Definite touch indicators
that communicate a woman's interest in you and where to watch for
- How long and how frequently you should touch a woman
to keep things in the "attraction" zone and out of the "creep zone..."
- The 4 'accidental' kino touches
women will let slip when she wants you to know that she's interested or
wants to hook your interest...
- What to do when you get mixed signals
- and how to sort them out so you're not confused about a woman's
- 4 Kino Tests you can
give a woman to see if she is really interested in you or just being
- How to use your iPod or mobile phone
to build trust and rapport with women when you're out on the date or
just meeting her...
- The advanced conversational skill
of "Backgrounding" and how it works to
create credibility and reassurance in a woman while making her say "I
feel like I've known you forever..."
- How to use photos to establish mystery and curious
interest from a woman...
- The 3 "Wager" Rules to
spice up your
meeting or date with heightened emotional interest that will have a
woman coming back to you over and over again to "play..."
- How to maximize your look to increase your visual
appeal when approaching or dating...
- The 8 Top Appearance Factors
you can and must
control to show your best look to women and create the best possible
- 4 Rules of Personal Style
for your clothes and appearance...
- What to watch for in a woman's mixed messages to
understand what she is REALLY saying to
- How to avoid the crippling effect of
"outcome focus" so that you enjoy talking with women
and approaching women...
- How to get a woman's phone number
- even when the group dynamic goes 'weird' on you...
- Why 'easy' women and 'easy' attention will destroy
your game with women...
- Redirection Theory and
how it's necessary in attraction dynamics to manage social situations
and avoid emotional reactions...
- How you must handle a woman's test questions and
behavior so that she trusts you and your self-confidence...
- Emotionally charged terminology
and how to use words to boost your your mood - and anyone you talk to...
- How to instantly figure out which person is the Alpha
in any group...
- The SINGLE most important thing
to project when you're with a woman so that she maintains her
confidence in you and feels an unshakeable bond...
- Learn how to handle it when a woman shuts you out of
- The 12 Secret Alpha Traits
that you must develop
for compounding your Alpha Male confidence and how to build them up
from scratch - even if you don't have any of the confidence you really
- How to make techniques REAL and
individual to you
- avoid feeling like a "pickup artist clone" and really create an
attractive REAL you that women will be drawn to and compelled to work
- 3 Powerhouse Methods to
keep you relaxed
and calm inside when you approach and meet women in any environment or
situation - and end the jittery "nerves" that always stop you from
making the attempt...
- The single most Essential Alpha Quality,
and an Exercise to identify and bring yours to the surface in the right
- Behaviors that will open a woman up to deep
rapport that you're probably hiding
away in fear - thinking that they are unattractive...
- The 5 steps to building Deep Rapport
on a date with a woman so that she feels a sympathy and understanding
for you that she will want to share...
- How to make your apartment or house "chick safe" and
inviting - Examples of good furnishings, 'art' and proper placement...
- What props and items you must keep on
you and in your car every time you go out... Including
the one thing you MUST have in the trunk
of your car at all times...
- AND MORE...
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DVD Contents - DISC #3
- How far to help your woman and how to avoid
over-investing in a relationship
- The Passion Exercise -
How to find the hidden motivation and excitement in your life that
women are attracted to most of all...
- How to communicate your strengths and
social value without sounding like you're bragging...
- The Secret Signals a
woman is watching for in your past relationships that clues her in on
your personality and character...
- The Inoculation Method
of destroying a woman's fears before they ever show up...
- How to communicate your status and value through qualification...
- The Science of Self-Confidence
- how you find the belief in yourself to achieve any goal... How
confidence is built from the ground-up...
- Exercise: Inventory of Assets - How
to capitalize on your strengths and build on your best qualities...
- How to use your ethnicity to improve your identity
and attractiveness, no matter where you come from...!
- The Three S's and how
they help you attract women and keep them over the long term...
- Inner and Outer Game -
What they are, When you use them, and how to build them... and the
secrets of how they work together
- Frame and State Application - The 4
Frames of Alpha Power - how to manage your own sense of
fear and anxiety and turn it into calm and power...
- The 4 Frame Skills for Social Power
- and when you use each of them to create an aura of intense Alpha
Secret Mistake you - and most guys - are making with
your attraction and rapport skills when applying techniques and methods
to attract women...
- The RR Technique - how
you use it in conversation to create a playful vibe with any woman...
- Where using technique will absolutely ruin
your success with women
- The 4 Rules of Technique Application
- Outer Game skills you must have to effectively use any dating
- The real
reason guys need and use pickup and seduction techniques ... HINT: It's
not what you think!
- The nature of your inner emotional
reactions - and how you control them so they don't
- EXERCISE: Define the
source of your
current frame - finding out how you're motivated to the level of
confidence and awareness you have...
- The 2 Sides of The Martial Art of
building Attraction with women - using Eastern Philosophy to build a
deadly dating skill...
- Massively Effective Techniques for controlling your
thinking and restructuring your beliefs...
- How to use Autogenic Training to program your
attitude and rehearse for success in dating, or any endeavor...
- EXERCISE: Positive Mind
Conditioning Scenario - get your thinking off the negative and back on
- Four Mind Control Tools
to keep you confident in any situation...
- How to override bad moods and negative
thinking quickly and simply...
- Why affirmations do not
how to harness the power of the Anthem to create massive changes in
your level of courage and confidence... including the two critical
ingredients to a positive Anthem...
- The fastest method to change your mental state -
you'll be able to trigger your own mood changes in less than a
- How to manage Fear and anxiety
so you are not crippled or paralyzed in dating situations...
- How to channel energy and redirect it
to power your life - find hidden sources of energy and
optimism that fuel your motivation...
- The 5 Second Technique
to conquer your fears...
- How to use the 3 Points of Emotional
Leverage to change habits once and for all - and not
fall back into old bad habits again...
- The Frustration Exercise to let go of your unhealthy attachment to results in dating situations...
- Why guys get frustrated and fail when they use
and seduction techniques - and how to overcome these stumbling
- The 2 Essential Ingredients
to improve your dating skills...
- How to leverage Multiple Streams of
Female Income to create a packed calendar of dates and
- Should you date someone from work?
The indicators of success, and who you should never
- Should you consider a therapist or counselor to
improve your inner game? Find out the pros and cons...
- What do you do when a guy comes over and hits on your
girlfriend...? Find out what do you do if your girl is hit on
by other guys so that you can avoid fights, and make her MORE attracted
- How to use your competition
to help you win more women and build fierce attraction...
- Understanding the Female Mindset and
Beliefs - Why a woman acts like a bitch, and where she's
- The only effective defense
against a woman's frame of belief - how to maintain confidence in the
face of her emotional storms...
- What you must understand about a woman's mindset and
thinking to survive in bar and club environments...
- The 4 Hidden Desires of Women
- and how you can use these basic desires to draw women even closer to
- Sexual Tension, and why
guys are afraid of it - and how you can use it to your advantage every
single time you talk with a woman...
- The Escalation of Jeopardy Method
of how to raise sexual tension with women...
- How to recognize when a woman is actually helping you
attract her - and most men miss it...
- The 5 rules of women's resistance
- What to do when a woman resists and why she does it... and The
M&M Method to break through her resistance...
- What flirting REALLY is, and how to do it effectively
- The No-fly Zone to watch
out for - which women you want to be on RED ALERT for when you are
- The 2 Hidden Elements of
creating a safe zone of sexual energy with a woman so that she feels
respected and you become magnetic...
- The Secret Dilemma of Sex
- why you'll get it - and why you won't...
- How to talk to women -
and what the best
topics are to talk about so that you create madly effective
conversation that pulls her in deeper and deeper...
- How long do you listen to her problems and drama?
where you must stop being her "polite" listener and where to cut her
- How a woman unknowingly sabotages your conversation
when you're getting rapport - how rapport goes wrong for most guys...
- The 3 Secret Rules of Relating
on a deep psychological and emotional level with
- How to re-channel your sexual energy in healthy
directions in your life...
- How to calibrate and be 'real-time' with women when
you are out approaching...
- EXERCISE -
Conversational bridging and verbal acuity - speed responses to a
woman's questions and tests...
- How to expand your conversation skills on any topic
create killer banter and dialogue with a woman that sparks her interest
- The 4
Post-game Outcomes to manage in your dating...
- The 9 Rules of Phone Game
- How to call to get another meeting or date with any woman... even if
she doesn't remember you!
- The critical first step
you must use in
your first phone call that 95% of guys miss - and this one makes the
difference between getting the date, or getting flaked on again and
- When a woman says she's already busy, do you know how
to reply and turn it around into another date? Find out how...
- Specific messages you can use on a
woman's voicemail that will have her call you back
instead of waiting on "dead air..."
- Why you should NEVER
give a woman your phone number - and if you do, how to get her to actually
- How long to wait before you call a woman,
and how to space out your calls for maximum gain... and how to know
when you should absolutely NOT call...
- The hidden reasons women flake or lose interest - and
how to avoid this happening to you...
- When and why you should throw out women's phone
numbers... and how it could be the best thing you do for your
- Two Secret Date Locations
to go that you've never thought of to escalate her attraction and
- The 5 Don'ts for a date
- how you can avoid the common and easily avoided mistakes most guys
make on the date...
- Escalation - How to handle risk and go further than
you ever have before - faster than you ever have!
- How to initiate the first kiss -
and when you should never
- How to play it off if you miss the kiss - What to say
to put her at ease after the kiss...
- What you must stop your woman from doing on the first
few meetings to avoid certain failure...
- How to know how far to escalate and how
fast to go to avoid blowing things up in your face...
- How to ask a woman inside your home after the date...
- The timeline for each milestone on the path to
getting sexual with a woman... and why longer is better...
- Long Term Relationships:
How to establish the best foundation for keeping a woman, and the
2 Big Mistakes of Long Term Relationships...
- Why most guys 'settle down' too quick - and often
with the wrong woman - how to avoid making this mistake...
vs. Compatibility syndromes - Which do you need? Which
one is more important? And when? Find out...
- Exercise: Essential Qualities
- Identifying the kind of woman you can have a lasting relationship
- 4 Qualifying questions
you must ask a woman to decide if she's right for you...
- Understanding your physical requirements for the
woman in your life - and what you might think you need that you do
- How to read and understand a woman's 'subtext' and
- Social Skills -
Understanding Social dynamics and the 2 Secret Illusions of social
- The 2 Hidden Elements
all people want and are attracted to in others - and how you use them
to build your charm and charisma...
- The passive behavior that Nice Guys demonstrate that
repulses women every single time... and how you can avoid it...
- The 3 Rules of Social interaction
- how to be more effective in social situations and feel less
- What you must never
do with a woman if you want to keep her respect for you...
- The Massive Power of Vocal Celibacy
- The skill to use to give you incredible inner confidence and outer
effectiveness in any social interaction with women...
- Resourceful State Exercise
for getting connected to your skills and your inner confidence...
- Why you must never "call" a woman on most areas of
behavior... and how most guys lose women when they try to make their
- How to avoid the trap of being a "try-hard"
- Handling Boundaries with
women - What they are and how they trick you...
- Power Listening Skills
and the 7 ways to show good listening skills...
- 2 Approach Strategies
that will make her want you even more than the "pickup artist..."
- Verbal Banter - What it
is and how to use it in conversation to drive the energy and excitement
up to peak levels... with exercises...
- Steal the Woman's Frame
- 5 killer phrases to turn the tables on her and put you in a place of
power and respect...
- What it really
means when a woman shows direct interest in you... and how you can
avoid being fooled and tooled by women...
- 5 Mixed Message strategies
for building potent attraction with women with verbal skills...
- 4 Examples of REAL Banter techniques
to break through a woman's resistance to you...
- The Interview and Interrogation traps in conversation
- and how you can avoid them...
- Using the "Cut-up" strategy
to get REAL with women - with word-for-word examples...
- 3 techniques to tease and frustrate a woman the right
way to create attraction...
- 4 phrases for you to use
to recharge the conversation when you feel that she's holding back or
going quiet on you...
- The 2 Qualities you need
to pull off teasing or cocky/funny humor...
- 3 Key Methods for you to
tell jokes effectively, with examples...
- How to think and react quickly in conversations so
that you're never caught off guard again when you talk with a woman...
- AND MORE...
DVD Contents - DISC #4
- Verbal Aikido: what to
say and how to say it to practice good conversational self-defense...
- Learn how to answer any of the challenging question a
woman asks you: How old are you?, Are you a player? How old do you
think I am? Are you seeing anyone? Do you think I'm pretty?
- How you can answer any random question with one
- Answering a woman's challenges
to you - Why she challenges your questions and tests you...
- How to redirect her questions and keep it REAL -
without falling into phony and superficial conversations...
- The Avoidance Strategy to avoid
- and how using this can completely destroy rapport with women...
- Managing a woman's need for validation - how do you
handle a woman that practically BEGS you for compliments?
- The right way for you to handle a woman when she puts
on the brakes with you unexpectedly...
- Diagnosing your game -
How to figure out what went wrong, and what to do about it so you don't
make the same mistakes twice...
- Recognizing when a woman is trying to
control you - and how you avoid this negative
influence in your life...
- Understanding what a woman's questions
mean - Are they tests, or are they tools for connection?
And how do you know the difference?
- Why you want to avoid being too "cocky" with your
responses - and how to get better calibration to avoid turning women
- Storytelling - how to
stories so that women will be spellbound with your stories, and will
stay gripped in conversation with you...
- Storytelling Structure - Breakdown and examples of
and how they work to communicate and draw women in... Including
Subjects to use and subjects to avoid...
- Story "Vignettes" and
how you use them to keep interest alive, and maximize your time...
- The 4 Elements to storytelling
structure and the 4 Vital elements
to include in every story to enchant and mesmerize your audience, as
well as examples and the steps to create your own powerful stories...
- The Elevator Speech -
and how you use it to get phone numbers and meet women fast...
- The "Impostor Complex" -
the lethal confidence killer that every guy experiences - and how you
avoid it with REAL game...
- The Playboy Test for
women to find out if you've got a keeper or a woman to avoid...
- Understand the mindset to get younger women, and how
you identify women that want older men...
- How to effectively break it off with a woman - The
- Handling complication in breakups so that you avoid
the drama and pain...
- The 7 Goal Setting Targets
and Success Habits of the Alpha Man - and how to add these to your
arsenal of Alpha Lifestyle tools...
- The 2 Prime Laws of Success
- and how you will either use them to get what you want, or become a
victim of their force...
- Understanding the "importance and urgency" dilemma
to prioritize your life so that you pay attention to the right
- How to stay Immersed and Motivated in the Alpha
Mindset so that you keep improving and never quit...
- 5 Essential Resources to
use that will
develop your skills and confidence with women and life even further,
deeper, and more powerfully than you could ever have imagined...
- The Hidden Key to Success with Women...
ATTITUDE - how to build the right one into your life - and what the
secret attitude you need really is...
- The REBOOT Exercise to
reprogram your mind and wipe away all your limiting beliefs and
- Understanding your moods and how to use them to work
with you instead of against you...
- What you should never do when
you're in a bad mood - and nearly everyone falls victim to this trick
of your mind...
- Why you seem great at approaching and meeting women
day, and terrible the next - how to handle the variables... and how to
keep yourself consistent over time...
- The 3 Parts of your "self"
and how you create your confidence from scratch...
- The 2 Types of Self-confidence
and how they work together in your life...
- Which part of your thinking is responsible for
holding you back...
- The 2 parts of your self-image
and how they work together to either power you forward to do what you
want, or shatter your confidence and incapacitate you...
- The cycle of self-confidence
and how it works to drive you either forward or backward in your
- Non-Selective Interaction
- why this is the key to your success as a socially competent Alpha
- Your one area of selfishness you must control - and
how people sense it on you...
- The 2 sides of the most critical indicator of a man's
confidence and attitude...
- The Essential Vibe you
seek with women - how it is communicated...
- The Scarcity Exercise -
Uncover and identify your frame limiter that keeps you from taking
risks in life...
- The 2 Hidden Sources of
energy that pave the way to your success in life...
- The Authority Rule - how
you can get away with just about anything you want in life...
- The Self-discipline skill you must learn - or be
consumed by your emotions...
- Understand the difference between State and Frame -
and how they work together...
- The 4 Ingredients of Change - what
change is, and how you change - or how you fail to
change and remain locked in self-defeating behaviors...
- Why you must change NOW and how to make quantum leaps
improving your life and your mind...
- Why having too many options in your life is damaging
your lifestyle and motivation...
- The 5 Considerations of
identity - How to create and project a strong identity
to anyone you meet or talk to in just a few minutes...
- The Self-discovery Trap
and how you can avoid it...
- The Self-image/Identity exercise
- to unlock the chains of limitation you impose on yourself...
- The 2 big lies of identity
that you're programmed with since birth - and how you can see past them
to the Truth...
- Managing the most critical self-esteem element that
nearly every man is using AGAINST
- The 2 things you must eliminate in your belief
order to change... if you don't get rid of them, you will be driving
with your emergency brake on...
- EXERCISE - Pain and
- EXERCISE - Quantifying
- EXERCISE - Action Plan
- The 3-step plan for definite change in
- The hidden reason that most people DO
NOT change - and how you can bypass it...
- The 3 Secret Domains Of Control you have the power to
change in your life - and the 2 spheres of control and influence you
- Learn the 3 Core Reasons
why we do what we do - and which reason you must be aware of most...
- The 2-Step Plan to
obliterate bad habits...
- Your Emotional Key -
Find your MEGA motivator that will push
you to act NOW instead of putting it off again and again...
- How to be happy RIGHT NOW - even when you're working
on improving yourself...
- EXERCISE - The Resource
- EXTRA: SUCCESS STRATEGIES FOR THE ALPHA
- How to set priorities in your life - including goal
setting from today to the rest of your life...
- The 6 levels of Goal setting
and getting what you want from life...
- Where to go for self-development and how much to
spend to get the right results...
- Why you need to create a "mastermind" group and 4
places to go to create one...
- 5 Essential time management
- What you must do EVERY DAY
if you're serious about success - and chances are you're not doing this!
- The 5 zones of information you must read regularly to
stay current and interesting socially...
- The 3 distinct energy-generating habits
of Alpha Men...
- How your friends will impact your life - positively
negatively, and 3 steps to control this influence without losing your
- EXTRA: STRATEGIC ALPHA EXERCISES
- EXERCISE: The Identity
Starter Pack - get yourself started on self-discovery and powerful
inner game... The 6 essential steps
- EXERCISE: A/V Tools: How
to use technology to help you practice your techniques in
- 3 Tools to help you with
eye control, voice control, and your body language/physical presence...
- EXERCISE: Centerfold
- EXERCISE: The Prank
- EXERCISE: Field Work -
How to journal,
analyze, evaluate, and learn from your performance... How to diagnose
your skills and ability so that you become your own dating guru...
- EXERCISE: Creating an
Anthem - How to create an affirmation that will lock you into a
powerful state EVERY time you use it... 6 Easy missions
to find and totally rid yourself of any fear of approaching and meeting
- EXERCISE: 10 Progressive Approach Exercises
to get you out and talking with women without fear or risk...
- AND MORE...
"Secrets of the Alpha Man Immersion DVDs".
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From the REAL YOU...
And I don't want to sound all "hypey" here, but that's just the stuff I caught when I watched the program myself the first time. There's a lot more in the on-screen text and slides that I don't have the room to put here.
I mean, wouldn't it be just great to know you'd never again have to stress about whether you'd be able to approach women and attract them consistently? No more pulling your hair out and biting your nails as you review all the things that went wrong that night; no more lying awake at night staring up into the dark, trying not to give in to that tight knot of tension in your stomach, "hoping" and "wishing" for it all to be somehow better when you wake up?
Imagine not having to worry about getting dates or filling up your social calendar. Wouldn't it be just incredible to know you will meet women regularly, get their numbers, and get dates - day-in, day-out as regular and predictable as the tides?
Well, the truth is, you can do this in your life.
It's not snake oil, it's not fantasy or fiction and it's not hype.
It's about the perfect combination of skills and attitude that will enable you to get more out of your current personality and skills, more out of your reserves of energy and confidence without having to resort to sneaky seduction or pickup "tricks" to get women interested.
In fact, the best thing is that you'll be able to use ANY technique ethically and effectively and feel good about the success you're going to get with women because it's coming from YOU.
Do YOU Really Need This Program?
If you're already having all the success you've always wanted with women, then I'll be up-front and tell you that this program is probably not for you.
On the other hand, if you're looking to increase your skills with women by incorporating your best traits, as well as learn approaching and attraction skills that will help you improve your success with women and dating for the rest of your life, this program is something you need to try.
If you're looking for a program in HD video, again don't bother. The resolution of these DVDS is not going to win any awards.
But if you're the kind of guy that understands that you can find intense and powerful information without needing state-of-the-art, high-resolution video, and you know that you're not going to do any better with women because you could see all the razor stubble on my face, then I trust you're also the intelligent kind of guy that will reap an immense amount of information from this program.If you've EVER struggled to make change happen in your life, to get yourself on the right path and really make the kind of real TRANSFORMATION you desire, then this is a program you cannot let slip through your fingers.
R.E.A.L.earn Technology - Make Sure You Really 'Get It...'
These discs utilize R.E.A.L.earn Technology for deep and fast learning. The lessons are layered visually, audibly, and kinesthetically to create LASTING change...
People learn in one of three different modes: Auditory, Visual, or Kinesthetic.
something, like on a tape or a CD. You learn from what
something in a book or on television. You learn from
what you see...
something, like learning to tie a knot, or hands-on fixing a computer. You
learn by doing...
In this groundbreaking DVD
program, I have put together all three of these modes of learning for
you in a new system of learning I created called R.E.A.L.earn
R.E.A.L.earn System = TOTAL Immersion
Here's how it works:
The DVDs have over 12 hours of material. Most of this is live video of me in my groundbreaking Alpha Immersion Seminar held here in San Francisco. You'll see me in action, presenting my latest breakthrough secrets to developing the Alpha self-confidence you need. You'll even get the slides of the presentation, and visual examples of body language to really hammer the points home.
You'll also hear my tonality and voice as I present the material and techniques. Listen to each example as I demonstrate the verbal skills, storytelling, and more.
You'll learn the Alpha mindset by DOING the dozens of exercises provided on the discs.
You will hear, see, and DO the exercises, and this will increase your ability to learn by AT LEAST TEN TIMES what it would be by watching the DVDs alone.
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BONUS #2: Access to the Podcast Archives
For over a YEAR now, I've been producing a critically acclaimed weekly podcast. Every Sunday, a new segment is available online - but only the past 3 or 4 podcasts are available. The rest are now offline.
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BONUS #6: Carlos on the Radio
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BONUS #9: The Approach Reference Card
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And that's not all! You will also have an instant access to my exclusive members ONLY Alpha Man Power Forum. You'll be able to exchange techniques, tips, and advice with the other Alpha Men on topics ranging from building your confidence, to how to meet women, to health and fitness. Every so often I will even post answers to questions and conduct surveys and polls. This is one community that you absolutely must be a part of!
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Isn't it time you succeeded with women?
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This is the time to BE real. A REAL Alpha Man.
There's nothing more important to men than learning the art and science of getting and understanding the women. There's no excuse for letting this opportunity slip through your fingers. Even if you're a little short on cash at the moment, I've made special arrangements for you to get this program.
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- Protection #1: If you're not absolutely thrilled, just return the DVDs in re-saleable condition within 90 days for a complete 100% refund. No questions. No hassles.
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..I literally take ALL of the risk for you because that's how much I
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I only succeed if YOU succeed. That's my goal for you.
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- The Pre-Date Cheat Sheet...
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- 28 Exclusive Audio Tips for dating and attraction...
- The Approach Reference Card...
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